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Who are we trying to comfort?
Were you ever told to 'be brave' or not to cry? It's a very common thing for parents to say to children and it's most often not said...

Greg James
Jan 30, 20212 min read
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Alone
Lockdown is hard for us all in different ways. It curbs our freedoms, we can go stir crazy with the kids in the house 24/7 while also...

Greg James
Jan 6, 20212 min read
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Anxiety and the Body
Have you ever wondered what anxiety actually is and what purpose it serves? Anxiety is the body's natural response to stress - most...

Greg James
Nov 13, 20205 min read
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Therapy sometimes makes you feel worse...
....but that's part of the process. Coming to therapy is not an easy thing. The idea of sharing your experiences or your inner thoughts...

Greg James
Sep 26, 20201 min read
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Find it hard to Forgive?
Many, if not most of us, have grown up with a definition of forgiveness that we find difficult to come to terms with. We feel that by...

Greg James
Sep 12, 20203 min read
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Boarding School Survivors
Are you emotionally Bulletproof? I attended a boarding school in South Africa from the age of fourteen until I graduated high school...

Greg James
Sep 1, 20204 min read
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How Do You Feel?
We've been tricked into thinking that we are getting a better idea of who we are. In reality, we are getting more distanced from ourselves.

Greg James
Aug 17, 20202 min read
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Response vs Reaction
Sometimes you start to think that you are in therapy to help you cope with the people in your life that should really be in therapy.

Greg James
Aug 1, 20202 min read
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What is Mental Health?
What do we mean when we talk about mental health? It's not what you might think! Mental health is not something you have or don't have.

Greg James
Jul 29, 20201 min read
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Patterns of Relating
How hard do you fight to stay inside your comfort zone? How true is this simple statement? We probably all know that we like to stay...

Greg James
Jul 17, 20202 min read
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You're Not Stuck
Changing patterns of behaviour that are no longer helpful. Don’t look back at your past self and feel that you should have handled...

Greg James
Jul 16, 20201 min read
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Authenticity
What does it mean to be authentic and how do you achieve it? Being authentic is a bit of a catch phrase at the moment but things usually...

Greg James
Jul 16, 20201 min read
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Dealing with the Past
The past is something that happened to you. It is not who you are.

Greg James
Jul 13, 20201 min read
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What makes a Man?
Recognising the role of socialisation in what we perceive a masculine man to be. Recognising the role of socialisation in what we...

Greg James
Jul 13, 20202 min read
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Where do you Find your Worth?
External Evaluation of Your Worth Will Always Lead to Disappointment Society teaches us that our worth is determined by the opinion of...

Greg James
Jul 13, 20201 min read
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